351 - What a magic number
Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: Central Queensland Coast
Re: Big car accidents support
A big bit of bad luck there mate, hope you get better soon.
I nearly killed myself when I was 19, and killed my ute in the process.
Now that I sit back and think about it, it was probably the event that changed my life.
I have finally got myself another ute, but it made me realise that these things can happen & you don't think about all the things you would or should have done until it's too late.
It even lead to my relationship at the time splitting up, I became very moody and irritable, and I still have trouble dealing with it today.
I find myself not being able to relax, or be 'normal' with other people, especially females and this has resulted in no more relationships for me.
The sad part is, people always say that 'they understand what you're going through', but the fact is they just don't.
Since that day, I have done what I wanted, when I wanted, but this attitude is probably a bit selfish.
The other night a bloke I knew got killed when his plane crashed, and this only further re-inforces the fact that you should look after number one and make the most of what you've got.
Plus you should not take things out on the people closest to you or you will lose them and regret it forever.
I don't know if this makes any sense to you, but I feel a bit better now, so thanks.
I hope that this thread helps you to deal with the change in your life too..
Original XD 351 Ute - I got one!!
HSV - I just don't want one....EVER!
My XF 3 on the tree ute is ALWAYS stuck in third......