Originally posted by Aussie Pete
Tell us how you'd win her over for a "Yes" to the date idea!
(I'm not going to post my brother's ideas as they may be deemed to be politically incorrect at the minimum).
I had a good yak to a work mate (who for the record, is a pom) about this during one of our after work pub sessions.
He recently stumbled upon a method that he claims works for him. This works for someone you already know, which seems to fit here. Steer the conversation into the direction of when you first met. Women being so curious (and if you sense subtle flirting going on, she'll be doubly curious), she will ask you what you thought of her when you first met. Laugh hard, because I know I did, but my mate swears that if you say 'I just wanted to nibble you on the bum.' this has them all keen. I haven't used it, because I'm more of a tits man than a bum man, and I don't think 'I just wanted to nibble on your tits' would get me very far - maybe the floor cradling my nuts.
Another approach I read about (in a well repsected monthly journal) is a little more daring. If she has a boyfriend, you obvously don't want to ask her this question in front him. Discussion often ends up in the gutter, especially after a few brews, and if this happens, when you get to yak to her alone, out of the blue ask 'Have you ever wondered what it would be like if I went down on you.' A very bold question, but the way it's phrased places the emphasis on her, not you. If she blurts out no, you've still posed the question and she'll think about it (maybe fantasise about it). If she pauses, or doesn't answer, well... maybe she has thought about it! This tip actually came from a female, so that gives it some merit.
Or, you could resort to the tried and true bastard method. Despite the boyfriend, become her best 'male' friend. Be her shoulder to cry on when they have fights (even the ones you start because you've dobbed him in ) and be that sensitive male she's always wanted (if you can pull it off). This method requires a bastard streak (especially if the boyfriend is a mate) and the inkling that they may break up anywayz.
Disclaimer: I've not any of these methods, and take no responsibility for their reprecussions if anyone does!