How important is appearance?
Just curious... How important is appearance when it comes to relationships or friendships? Do you value personality above ALL else, meaning you would go out with someone totally hideous because they had a great personality? Or would you go the other extreme and go with someone purely based on physical attractiveness, regardless of personality? Or somewhere in the middle?
If you fell for someone's personality, but they were ugly, would their appearance change your intentions towards them? Would you be ashamed to be seen with them based on their looks? Or would you just say to hell with it and be with them regardless of what other people think? Or would you even defend your ugly partner to other people?
And if you were with someone based on their looks alone, and their personality was less than average, how long do you think you could last? Would you get bored with it eventually? Or just not care - as long as you could take them out and show them off, would that be enough?
In this day and age it seems that inner beauty doesnt count for a great deal, and that is is all about appearance. For either gender, it seems that attractiveness is only measured on the outside and what's inside is not valued enough.
It seems that too many people worry too much about what others think and not enough about what their own heart tells them.
Myself? I couldnt give a stuff about appearance. If I were to fall for someone, it would be the entire package, who they are, their personality and how they made me feel. But then, I always make decisions based on what my heart tells me and not my head....perhaps following your heart is not a good thing....
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