thank you OED666 for pointing me to this thread - i have been snowed under with work and other commitments that i havent had time to breathe.
ok, in short, nothing has happened - i got a total of 3 emails from her while she was in vietnam, all sweet and cheery and stuff, but she didnt let me know when she got back, and so far hasnt told me if she is going to stay going out with spatchcock boy or the legend (thats me, in case you were in any doubt :s6:) but no news is bad news, so i assumed she is keeping spatchcock boy.
i have only seen her once or twice since she got back, we dont have any shifts togather any more, so i havent been able to talk to her. i rang her once for a chat, and it was all wierd, like i was talking to my sister, not to a girl where there is a mutual affection thing going.
while we were talking she invited me to her birthday thing (which was last weekend) so i said yeah cool i will come, the convo wandered off that topic to a few other things, then came back to it, and she asked me again, i said yeah no worries, then she said "oh, um...i forgot to tell you, N (her bf) is coming" im like, well, i wont be then :) she asked why not, i said that i just didnt want to meet him, ever, and gave a few reasons, none of which included that i didnt want to spend the night in the watchhouse for giving him a swift elbow to the bridge of the nose (which i think i most likely would have done, i HATE him with a passion!)
so i didnt end up going.
BUT when i saw her at work she was all nice and cheery and stuff. there was a new dishy that started that night, who was present during the convo we had (and wouldnt bloody go away, he sh!ts me to tears that guy!) and when i dropped him at the train station on the way home he said "man, that chick really likes you hey" i asked him how he knew, he said "just the way she was acting mate, i could tell" he had no idea about any of this saga, so its not just my imagination that she likes me...i dunno.
she also said that she was really keen for us to go out sometime, preferably in the june holidays when she doesnt have to worry about assignments and stuff.
so basically, nothing has happened, i still dont know what the hell is going on inside her troubled mind, its bloody annoying, but im not waiting around - another two new waitresses started this weekend as well, and both of them are sexy so i think i might just start work on them lol.
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Rollin your the man, make the move ask her out on a date, dont worry bout spatchcock! If she says yes, your halfway there, if not cut your losses and move on. If you do get on a date, make the move no matter what. Even in perfect times, its arkward majority of times to do so.
By taking action will answer all your questions, without doing the arward talk. The earlier you find out the better it will be. Dont hang around like a bad odour, take the initiative.
i disagree snavy ( respectfully ) one of the most dishonourable things one could ever do is move in on another mans territory, if she breaks it off with him, then fair enough, the field is yours, until then I wouldnt be walking through that particular minefield she calls her thoughts
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