love is a double edged sword.
Real woman go for shy men becuase they are usually just as shy themselves... but...
Im not a girl but Im a bloke whose been happily married for 19 years if that helps. First there is nothing like unrequited love, that is you love somebody very much but they do not feel the same way in return. Yes it does cut deep mate but we've all known girls that are out of reach. Reminds me when I was in Yr12 and I fell head over heals in love with a girl who did not love me and what was worse she had a boyfriend as well. When I ask her out on a date she gave me the coldest stare I ever saw from a woman ever in my life, when I had the courage to speak, i was shot down. She said "Sorry Karl, your a nice guy and all but I know this guy since Yr10 and we've been going steady for a while"
The rest of the words were a blur in my mind and I could not speak for a day afterward, i was crestfallen. I began to subliminally hate woman afterwards for some reason that they use their beauty as a lethal weapon with lots of collateral damage.
Funny afterward I adopted the stand of aloofness towards woman any funnily enough 3 girls wanted to take me to the Yr 12 formal. Don't ask me why I just adopted the tradtional Macho John Wayne tough ignorant mongrel and some woman thought i was a rough diamond that needed 'polishing'. Spose woman always go for those chracters, the 'alpha male' so to speak.
Well for all the one night stands and all we all have I thought I never was thinking id ever find "little miss perfect" or "miss not quite but nearly there" or "hey she'll do".
After I had a horrid day at work, love was the last thing on my mind but....
Then I was waiting for the next train home at a train station and there she came down the stairs. The birds seemed to sing announcing her arrival and that clear winters day just felt allot warmer. Then she noticed me and we were both following each others eyes all the way till she sat down right next to me! It was truly spooky I never met this lady in my life yet I felt a inexplicable bond, impossible to describe. I was trying to say some small talk like "hey the trains late isn't it" or "hav'nt i seen you before somewhere" or maybe "you have the most bluest eyes I've ever seen". I managed a mere hello and not too long after we had a liverly fascinating conversation from your favorite ice cream flavour to the meaning of life.
We talked all the way home like we were old friends. It only came natural for me to say when i was off work If I could be the honour of taking her out to my 'favorite italian resteraunt'."She was flattered and delighted and she loved Italian food as well! The rest is history. All I can say is, don't ever look for love, let love find you.........
Long Live the EA!