Yes i feel utterly pathetic for posting this on here but right now i'm absolutely desperate to do whatever i can to change how things are.
My gf has just broken up with me, and i feel pretty well gutted cos it's been long term and very full on - no sex or anything like that, but we've been through some of the toughest shit i've ever had to experience in my life.
And I'm at a total loss right now - i just dont understand what it is i've done wrong. She thinks im never happy and dont ever want to talk to her, which couldnt be further from the truth, but aside from resorting to pathetic sounding SMS's and emails, how can i show her i still love her and want her back as badly as i do?
I still can't believe it's happened, and yes i feel completely ****ing pathetic because of it, moreso cos im posting it on here, but right now anything anyone can come up with is worth a try cos i dont wanna lose her.
Give me as many ideas and suggestions as possible to fix this, i'm really really desperate atm.
mate thats sucks..sorry to hear. Ive been with my gf for 27 months and I have no idea how I would react if it was to end.
It all depends, Im not a big fan of sucking back up. If she loves you then this is just a big tiff and you mightn't talk for a while, but things will workl out.
So you sure you didn't say something that was a little rash? I do it all the time. In that case an apology is always good (der).
If all else fails, just tell her that you love her, and ask what was the real reason. But remember you are young. Is this your first major relationship? Cos the first is always teh hardest to get over, its just a fact of life.
You be right, be honest; what else can ya do.
Ok ill take my Dr.Phil hat off now. Goodluck
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i think we both said stuff we didnt mean to, and i apologised but was met with the 4 words you NEVER want to hear - 'too little too late'.
She wont return my calls and im not getting any replies from her, i'm just hoping and praying we can work something out cos i really do not want to lose her!
She's not the first but she's definately the only one i want, so i'm busting a gut to fix this cos its painful!
was just thinking of that some idea, just not sure if i can do it cos she lives out on a farm, and i dont really want to put them there myself (if she doesnt want to see me right now, last thing i'm going to do is go to her house!).
was just thinking of that some idea, just not sure if i can do it cos she lives out on a farm, and i dont really want to put them there myself (if she doesnt want to see me right now, last thing i'm going to do is go to her house!).
what about one of your mates? are you friends with her friends?
Sounds like primary school but maybe worth a go. BTW ask her best friend what the issue is if you cant get it out of her.
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ah - not keen on doing that, its a difficult thing to explain (very personal for her too), let's just say i'd rather speak to her than go through any of her friends. it's a bit low to do that anyway i think.
ah - not keen on doing that, its a difficult thing to explain (very personal for her too), let's just say i'd rather speak to her than go through any of her friends. it's a bit low to do that anyway i think.
yeah it is but it sounds like you dont have much of a chioce at the moment.
Just give it time I say.
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mate sorry to hear all this, sorta the same thing happened to me about 2 weeks ago, but it was a new thing that had just started. the worst thing i did was send her sms messages trying to find out what was going on, i had no idea... i found out thru a work mate that smsing her just made it worse (i honestly didnt think it was excessive)
I think the best thing to do right now is give her a few day, its gonna hurt like hell not knowing whats going on, but it will give her time to sort her feelings out and hopefully both of u wont be as heated as u seems to b now
good luck with it all mate
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