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www.overlander.com I think you will find what you are looking for there. I really have no need for a 4x4 here in Florida, I have a 95 pathfinder 4x4 and I think I've put almost 17 miles while in 4x4. I opted for luxury and comfort vs. ablility to travel in the mud and snow this time...
you want a quick and easy mod that makes a big diff?
try the xenon (hid) wannabee headlight bulb replacement. I did the headlights and the fog lamps, now they are noticable brighter and have a bluish tint. I also changed the corner turn lamps to clear instead of amber.
enjoy..