Bluetooth will not sync with my phone

I have a 2009 Escape XLT and I can not get the auto to sync with my phone. When I press the "phone" button on the dash, the display says "No Phone". I've tried all the tricks with pulling the sync fuse, run it for 5 minutes shut car off and plug the fuse back in. Nope! Not happening. I have no clue how to check if my car has Sync. All 2009 have it, but I'm at a lost to the steps to allow my phone to sync with the car. Really like to know how to get this to work. thanks