yes I know, I hate these threads too, and I usually avoid them, so if I get no replies, I know why. I've been going out with my GF for 7 months now, and to be honest, the past few havent been stellar. It seems that she is always in a down/bad mood. I very rarely see her in any other state, whether it be us on the phone, or in person. I've asked, and asked, and asked what was wrong, even made attempts to change little things to see if it improves her disposition, only to be faced with more mumbles and lackadasical attitutudes. After getting off the phone with her just now, Im ready to call it quits. I know that she has a good time with her friends (one in particular that she has been hanging out a lot with lately), so I know shes not in a pissy mood all the time. If I make her unhappy, then we just need to seperate. Anyways, I just needed a place to vent. Im really not happy aboot it, I know she is a great girl, and feel very strongly for her, but this is just getting old.