how many of you have successfully done this? I just broke up with my gf of 7 months, and she now says that she "cant not have (me) in (her) life." I miss her a lot, and a part one me wants to be friends, just because I dont want her out of my life. Now the more logical side of me says "dont be an idiot, seeing her is just gonna make things worse, especially if she gets another bf." I know the right thing to do, but why cant I make myself do it! Dude....women suck.